Take a note pad….. and keep track of all the times boys try something…. and how you feel that day. Even simple things like eye contact, or the nice hello’s that don’t turn creepy. You’ll start to see the difference between guys appreciating you, and trying to get your attention. You’ll start seeing the difference between you being cold, and you being insecure. It really helps you get aware of how many times someone looks at you out of appreciation and you look away out of insecurities. You’ll surprise yourself. My mom had told me before she died: “The only thing, worse for a woman, than not being able to walk down the street without men trying to pick her up, is when they stop trying.”

~Nerdo

Thursday, April 4th, 2019